Ten Qualities of a Total Winner

The Psychology of Winning

Denis Waitley

The 10 Qualities of a Total Winner

Quality 1:  Positive Self-Expectancy 

"Life is a self fulfilling prophecy. True winners go into every event expecting to win."
Basically what this quote means is that you should expect highly of yourself. You should push yourself to the limit, and feel positive about it. You should always push yourself to the limit because it will make you happy. In order to be a winner, you have to remain positive when you don't.You need to always be positive too through the tough times, always be humble. You need to be a CTR 24/7 person, positivity will come to you naturally.

Quality 2: Positive Self-Motivation 

"True winners dig deep and find motivation inside themselves to get through that tough task or to learn a new skill."

I agree with this quote by Denis Waitley because it is very true. Even in bad situations, you should try your best to keep a positive outlook.Make more regular encounters with positive and motivated people. This could be as simple as chatting with peers or a quick discussion with a friend who likes sharing recipes or ideas. Find the good in bad. When encountering obstacles, you want to be in the habit of finding what works to get over them. You should also start to take note of when your motivation is high and when it is low. You should find what motivates you and reward yourself. Positive self motivation is important so you can stay on the right path and be successful in life. You should always stay positive and happy if you are a CTR person 24/7 and Choose the Right

Quality 3: Positive Self-Image

True winners are confident and view themselves as competent, valuable human beings.

If you want to win at something, you have to seem confident you know what you're doing. If you project a positive self-image, people will see you as a capable, positive person. You need to be positive even through the tough times, when it may get hard. You must first believe you can do something before anyone else believes it. You have to replace the negative thoughts with positive thoughts, to have a positive mindset.

Quality 4: Positive Self-Direction

You gotta have direction if you are going to go anywhere. True winners know where they are going. Their sense of direction comes from the self and not from outside influences like parents or friends.

You have to know how to lead yourself in the right direction. You have to be a CTR person 24/7 in order to go down the right path.

Quality 5: Positive Self-Control

Total winners can sacrifice immediate pleasure for a gain in the future. Delayed gratification is of immense value in reaching your goals.

Quality 6: Positive Self-Discipline

You have to discipline yourself or else someone else will discipline you into doing what they want you to do. Total winners have the power to discipline and take control of their lives.

You need to be able to discipline yourself in a positive way. In order to take control of your life you need to discipline yourself or else another person will do it for you. You need to be able to control your feelings and overcome any weaknesses that you may have. There is many obstacles in life that you will have to face, and to face them you need patience and self-discipline. When you foster self-discipline within you, you will have a higher self esteem and a higher self-confidence. Self-discipline is a skill/habit that will eventually become part of your lifestyle. You have to make an effort to stick to your decisions, even the most simple ones. 

Quality 7: Positive Self-Esteem

Your mood and outlook on life affect the way you see the world and how you interact in it. Total winners are positive, powerful people who make people feel good and provide a good vibe to those around him/her.

You should have a positive outlook when it comes to your self esteem. If you want to attract good vibes, then you need to always remain calm and positive. The best thing about having a positive self esteem is that you can be yourself. You can be happy by living on your own terms, each of us can gain a better understanding of what we want. Another good thing about having a high self esteem is also that you can face new challenges. You will face these challenges enthusiastically, and want to come up with a creative solution.  If you Choose the Right 24/7, you will have much more than a positive self esteem. You will have a positive outlook on life that will make you a total winner.

Quality 8: Positive Self-Dimension

Total winners like in the present. They know that now is all there is. They don’t get caught up in the past or worry about the future. They simply handle the business that they can handle which is the stuff going on today, now.

You should not worry too much about your past because it should not define you. You should live in the present because ultimately the present can help determine your success in the future, You shouldn't stress about what you cant change, but focus on your energy on what you can change now. You should handle whatever business you have to today, then focus on what else you can change tomorrow.